I feel like we are crazy people for flying with a baby (almost 5 months old). & maybe we are, lol. Apparently people do this all the time. I personally don’t know these people, but I’ve read about them. The anxiety level is at a whole new high. Especially when you have very limited flight experience. The week prior to the trip was filled with pacing, lists, and consolidating. But some how we made it out alive. So, while this won’t dissolve your anxiety, here are 10 things I learned from flying with a baby that might help tone it down a notch.
- Baby wear!
This literally saved my life. E hates the car seat (can you blame him?) plus who wants to try & carry a baby AND all of their luggage? Having both hands free makes everything so much easier & it gives babe the ability to take in all of the sights! We use a Boba wrap because I love the convince. I can put it on before we leave & be able to pop him in there in no time.
- You don’t need the extra seat.
We bought E a seat because we figured it would be there if we needed to put him in his car seat. Which we didn’t do. It was nice because then we got 6 carry on items rather than 4, but paying to check a bag is a lot cheaper than a ticket, lol! So, if babe is under 1 just stick with the “infant in arms” option!
- Have suction options prepared!
Whether it be a paci, bottle, or boob, be ready! The sucking/swallowing helps regulate the pressure during take off & landing and helps minimize the pain in their ears. This of course only works if babe is hungry and/or will take paci. E wasn’t having any of the above during landing on our way home *eye roll* so I’m sure you can imagine how that went.
- Pack the bare minimum.
You really don’t need EVERY toy. I probably packed twelve and he only played with three. Save yourself the room & the sanity by bringing the ones that are most likely to entertain him while crammed in an airplane. Pro tip: we use a paci clip on his favorite teething toy to save us from having to pick it up 147 times. Plus, airplane floors? Ew.
- Save yourself a carry on.
This is especially important if you’re visiting family. We needed an extra bag in order to bring back everything E got over the three days we were gone! If we hadn’t packed smartly, we would have had to buy & check a bag in order to bring everything home! & if you don’t need the extra bag that is one less thing you have to lug around the airport, so still a win!
Ya do what ya gotta do! Need to pace the aisles? Have to sing the ABCs on repeat? Babe want to nurse the whole time? Whatever it is, do it! You may be uncomfortable at first, but it’s a whole lot better than dealing with a screaming child. My mom motto: whatever works!
- Throw sleep/schedule out the window.
Ugh, this was my biggest concern. E struggles with sleep as it is. How in the world was I going to get him to sleep between the driving to the airport, the flight, and the trip itself?! I just had to let it go. I nursed E to sleep as close to the beginning of the flight as possible & hoped for the best! No point in stressing over something you have limited control over. Just enjoy the trip & focus on getting back on track once you’re home!
- Be cost-effective!
We brought our pack n play as one of our carry ons (yay!). But if you are unable to consolidate things in order to be able to do this don’t immediately decide to check it. Delta charges $25 to check an item. Is bringing your pack n play worth the $50?? You can buy one for cheaper than that! Just leave it at grandma’s for the next visit!
- Take advantage of preferred seating.
Getting on the plane first is so beneficial. It was so much less stressful not having to worry about being in other people’s way or being too slow. We were able to get everything situated and place our carry ons right above us with no hassle at all. Plus, E loved watching everyone walk by as they were finding their seats. Win win!
- People RALLY!
Probably because they want babe to stop crying as much as you do, but still. It was so heartwarming for me to look back & see three different people smiling & making faces at E. These strangers were doing their best to help calm a baby they would never see again. Funny faces & all. How awesome is that?
Have you recently flown with a baby or will you be flying soon? What are some things that helped you make it out with your sanity?
Happy flying! Lots of love, Lori